I wanted to start this page with this picture not only to say that it’s beautiful to have a large havdallah candle for a Motzei Shabbos Melave Malka but because if you look at my husband and son’s face you can see that it’s the journey that shines. As Shluchos who run our many worlds, planning for a simcha can be so overwhelming! This one was our first and I honestly had to work on myself every day to ‘let go’. Not everything was as detailed as I’d like but I wanted more than any decoration, any flower arrangement, any ribbon…the days and weeks preceding to be a good memory for the whole family!
Not easy… but well worth letting go!